March 17, 2004
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I look at the basic unit of every single society since the beginning of time; the family, starting with the marriage between a man and a woman. It’s a self-evident truth that a man and a woman is the proper place to begin a family and to raise children. So, when we talk about the ‘weaknesses’ of the system, the experiment, they’re not in the system that was originated by a Divine power and recognized by the Founding Fathers. The weaknesses are that our current society has lost sight of basic, self-evident truths.
The right to life should be self evident. Mothers shouldn’t kill their young. It’s right for a society to try to protect the vulnerable. The central aspect of God is that he gave man freedom and free will. Yet the government today has ignored that self-evident truth. How can you create happiness for yourself and your family if you have a government which imposes so many restrictions on your freedom, on your family, on your behavior and your free will? It’s just astounding that the weaknesses derive from an incredible lack of knowledge; not just a lack of understanding, but a lack of knowledge of what the Great Experiment was about and what the founding was about.
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Rebecca: It never existed as it is interpreted today. The First Amendment was to protect churches from the government!
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Rebecca: I can remember a defining moment in my life when, as a young adult, I saw a movie and… if I struggle hard enough, I might be able to remember its name. Anyway, it was about Communists coming through Mexico and taking over the southern and western parts of the US. I remember thinking it was such a silly movie, after all we’re the United States. However, as the years went on, I realized that something like that could happen. I also see a strange behavior of many people over here who want absolute freedom and yet think we’re imposing our will on Iraq. They don’t realize we’re helping an oppressed population and that the people who oppress them could come over here and cause trouble for us and our freedom. The disconnect is amazing to me. They enjoy, and even demand, their rights but they don’t want other human beings to enjoy the same rights.
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Rebecca: So much has been lost for the individual. And, although we talk about “kids today,” I wrote a column about this, it’s the adults today that are the real problem, not the kids. The media, the pornography, the dumbing-down in education, the garbage that’s thrown at our children everyday is the responsibility of the adults. You don’t have 5 or 10 year olds producing trash movies. You don’t have a 6 year old deciding what should be taught to him in his history class. It’s the adults who have failed.
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Rebecca: I hate to make it so simplistic, but it’s the very same problem that existed since mankind was created in the garden of Eden. It’s the voice saying, “you can do what you want; you can be all knowing and all powerful; you can demand anything; you want to eat the apple, eat it.” It goes all the way back to the first idea of free will. God gave us the most powerful thing that exists: free will. We were given the opportunity to determine our destiny, but consequences were clearly outlined. So when mankind doesn’t submit to a higher authority, we don’t have ordered freedom.
Peter: That has certainly been emphasized by the success and authority of the physical sciences. You even see bumper stickers that say “question authority.” To some, that bumper sticker means, listen to the serpent; listen to the material world.
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So, I think a lot of our problems could be solved by real parenting and also by all of us getting back to the real basics. We don’t have to get complex in the way we live our lives. Basics such as manners, sharing, caring, being honest. It’s not difficult or complex. There sure are complex situations, where you need wisdom to make the right choice. However, if your decisions are based on firm, basic values you will make the right choice. Principles first.
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Helen: We don’t have to be complex, but we do have to be engaged in our lives. We have to find those first principles and know them in our hearts. If we take time to contemplate and reflect, we find that we do know the right thing to do, we know when something is wrong. It’s innate within us. Sure it’s good to study, to know what the Founding Fathers did and why, but ultimately that’s not really necessary.
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Plus, most of us are in constant denial of our own mortality. How many people live this day, this moment, as though they are going to meet their Creator in five minutes? One of the basics is, “you were born and you will die.” How many people think about that? How many people try to do their best every single moment? How many wonder why they are here?
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“Guys, chances are, someday you will go to war.”
These were the sobering words my husband, Andy, spoke to our sons within days after that fateful September morning now known as 9-11. Our family was seated around the kitchen table where we so often laugh, argue and discuss both the mundane and memorable events of daily life.
My family, including both of our sons who are now ages 16 and 14, are ready to defend America and freedom at all costs. It is a sickening feeling for a mother to watch the days go by and know that the time is ever closer when her baby may have to go to war.
Mothers and fathers all across the country are grieving the deaths of their brave sons and daughters who continue the war against terrorism, now being fought largely in Iraq. But as in every war for freedom, the ultimate prize is worth fighting, and even dying for.
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Peter and Helen:
The Sobering Cost of War
by Rebecca Hagelin
“Guys, chances are, someday you will go to war.”
These were the sobering words my husband, Andy, spoke to our sons within days after that fateful September morning now known as 9-11. Our family was seated around the kitchen table where we so often laugh, argue and discuss both the mundane and memorable events of daily life.
But that night was different. The conversation was not about schoolwork, or weekend plans, or forcing our then-12-year-old to take at least one bite of the vegetable on his plate. When terrorists declared war on America by murdering so many innocent civilians, my children lost their innocence like so many other sons and daughters regarding issues of peace and security and evil. And like in so many other homes around the country, the talk turned to war.
I saw the strain in Andy’s face, and imagined my 12- and 13-year-old boys as the men they would soon become. Andy quietly explained to a rapt audience of children – our children – how those who perpetrated this horrible evil had launched similar attacks on Americans before they were even born.
As far back as the summer of 1983, hundreds of unsuspecting U.S. Marines were blown to smithereens when their barracks were attacked in Beirut. My husband was in the Navy, on board the USS Joseph Hewes, a frigate in the Mediterranean, and he recounted how he watched as the pile of black body bags grew ever larger every hour on the deck of the nearby Iwo Jima. Andy recounted the many other attacks on Americans by terrorists that have gone unanswered as our boys absorbed every awful word.
Our family was gathered around the table that evening after watching President George Bush declare his resolve to find the evil ones and hunt them down. The president talked of how America would pursue the terrorists, and rid the world of all of them – no matter how long it took. We believed both in the president’s resolve and his prediction that the war would not soon be over.
My family, including both of our sons who are now ages 16 and 14, are ready to defend America and freedom at all costs. It is a sickening feeling for a mother to watch the days go by and know that the time is ever closer when her baby may have to go to war.
Mothers and fathers all across the country are grieving the deaths of their brave sons and daughters who continue the war against terrorism, now being fought largely in Iraq. But as in every war for freedom, the ultimate prize is worth fighting, and even dying for.
It’s a shame that it took the tragedy of 9-11 to make us realize the price we all have to pay for not standing up to evil. Had America responded comprehensively and powerfully to the numerous previous terrorist acts aimed at Americans around the world, 9-11 would never have happened. Thankfully, President Bush has set us on a course to ensure peace and freedom for future generations, if not our own offspring.
In a recent Veteran’s Day Heritage Foundation speech, President Bush said, “Our men and women are fighting to help democracy and peace and justice rise in a troubled and violent region. Our men and women are fighting terrorist enemies thousands of miles away in the heart and center of their power, so that we do not face those enemies in the heart of America. Our men and women are fighting for the security of America and for the advance of freedom, and that is a cause worth fighting for. The work we are in is not easy; yet, it is essential.”
Pre-9/11, America sat back while evil rulers took over Afghanistan and turned it into a training ground for terrorists. Earlier, we sat back and let Saddam Hussein, Muammar Qaddafi and others take power and use it for great evil against peace-loving people.
We’ve known about Osama bin Laden and his brand of terrorism for years. Jim Phillips, a brilliant Middle East expert at Heritage, first warned of the growing danger presented by Osama and like-minded terrorists in 1994, and identified him as an imminent threat in a paper issued more than a year before the 9-11 attacks. Phillips warned us that Osama had it in for America and had the resources to cause serious trouble.
The problem was, until 9-11, bin Laden couldn’t seem to get our attention. His bombings of American embassies in Kenya and Tanzania created too little U.S. response. His attack against the USS Cole in harbor at Aden, Yemen again brought few repercussions. In the mind of a madman, previously left free to terrorize at will, the 9-11 attacks on U.S. soil must have looked like a cakewalk.
But he was wrong.
Yes, our battle is bloody, and our target is often stealth. The lives lost rip out our hearts, and bring the strongest of men to their knees. And although the mission may be long and the path dark at times, to stop now is to doom our children and our children’s children to a life of fear, torment and subjection to the hands of barbarians.
As President Bush said in his Veteran’s Day Heritage Foundation speech, America will continue to move forward because retreat is not an option. “The failure of democracy in Afghanistan and Iraq will condemn every advocate of freedom in those two countries to prison or death and would extinguish the democratic hopes of millions in the Middle East. The failure of democracy in those two countries would convince terrorists that America backs down under attack, and more attacks on America would surely follow.”
As my husband explained to our two boys, America must export democracy and our commitment to freedom – not just because these things are right and just and moral, but because our security depends on it.
Tonight, someone else’s sons and daughters are in harm’s way. Often when I watch their faces on news reports, I see the faces of my own two sons, and am moved to tears. My mother’s heart aches for them and for their families, and my prayers for God’s mercy and strength are fervent. May God bless them, and keep them safe, and bring them speedy and complete victory.
Biography
Rebecca Hagelin is a vice president of the Heritage Foundation, a research and educational think-tank whose mission is to formulate and promote conservative public policies based on the principles of free enterprise, limited government, individual freedom, traditional American values and a strong national defense. She is also the former vice president of communications for WorldNetDaily and her 60-second radio commentaries can be heard on the Salem Communications Network.










